I hate that it’s Jan 25th and Parenthood is over for the season. But I’ve said it before, I’d rather have a 15 episode season of Parenthood, than no season at all. So if 15 is all I get and it keeps Parenthood on the air, so be it. But I’d still rather have the full 22…it has to be said!
Adam and Kristina
It’s been a pretty emotional season. Kristina’s cancer storyline has really dominated the tear factor, with a handful of other stories vying for their Kleenex moment, so you knew there was going to be a decision at the end of the season…was Kristina going to be in remission or was she going to die? I’m not going to lie. I was worried Katims was going to kill Kristina off. Because the storytelling that would happen in the build up to her death and in the preceding episodes dealing with her passing would be so incredibly powerful and interesting, I thought Katims might go that route. At this point, luckily, he has decided not to go in that direction. Although I fear seeing her friend Gwen might have been a foreshadowing of things to come. Now don’t get me wrong. I am by no means wishing for this to happen. NO. WAY. I’m just putting on my forecasting hat and, as usual, reading too much into everything.
Kristina had one more scan to make sure that the cancer hadn’t spread because something looked off in her test. But the doctor was just being cautious thinking it was probably just her body reacting to all the treatment. Turns out that exactly what it was! Yeah!!! Now he did warn her that she can’t use the “C” word (cured) for 5 years but at this point, she is cancer free!!!
I’m so happy for her and for Adam. This whole storyline was told so beautifully. It showed how scary and lonely it can be for a cancer patient. But it also showed how difficult it is on the spouse. And it showed that both sides can be flawed in their actions. There were times Adam was trying to be supportive but in his quest to support (like with bought Kristina the trip to Hawaii to celebrate her clean health), it pushed negative buttons in Kristina. Likewise, when Adam was doing his best to be supportive (like when he bought Kristina the wig) Kristina really overreacted to what her husband’s intentions were. Showing the side of the cancer patient in a supportive light is a dangerous and tricky storyline to go down. You never want to show a patient unfavorably because of what they are going through but if you are going to show this as real as possible, then you have to cross that line. But Katims did it so well that it was never disrespectful or insensitive. But it was a perfect ending to a very well told story from start to finish.
Joel and Julia
Speaking of a well told story, this story had some mixed emotions over the course of the season. I didn’t have as much of a problem as some people did…until the last two episodes. Now I am going to chalk up the fast turn around to only have 15 episodes to work with and wanting to wrap this story up on a happy note this season and not drag it out into the next one. But is that the fastest turn around you have ever seen in a kid? He went from being really nasty and mean to Julia and Sydney to now begging Julia to adopt him and asking Sydney to show up at his adoption ceremony because she’s his sister. This from the kid that just 2/3 weeks earlier was saying Julia wasn’t his real mother. It didn’t make sense to me. And there seemed to be no explanation as to what caused him to have this major change of heart. That’s the only part that really disappointed me. But my assumption is that Katims really wanted the adoption to happen in the finale and there was only so much time between certain episodes to make that happen.
Other than that, the adoption was wonderful and classic Braverman. Of course the ENTIRE family would be there to support J&J. And I LOVED how each one of them stepped up to say how they now related to Victor and how there certain areas in life where he should reach out to them for advise. (Oh and really Sarah, YOU’RE going to suggest relationships for your area of expertise. Ugh.) But the best part was at the end of the scene when they were running out and Victor said to Julia “Mom can we get ice cream?” The look on her face when he called her mom was priceless. I love it.
Crosby & Jasmine
I still don’t agree with Jasmine on how her mom should have been handled. Are there some sensitivities to the situation that should be respected because of who Renee is and what she has been to Jabbar? Absolutely. Does that give her the right to tell Crosby and Jasmine how to parent their son? No. And Crosby had every right to be upset with Renee interfering with their way of raising Jabbar. Renee wasn’t happy with their routine (Crosby getting in late and having dinner as a family when he got home.) so she just changed it. That isn’t right and Jasmine should have put her foot down more. She was just as much to blame in this for putting Crosby in the position of having to be the heavy and that’s why it became worse than it needed to be…because she didn’t have his back, even though she agreed with him. Ironically, I think Renee was right that Jabbar shouldn’t be eating dinner at 8:00pm during the week. That should be closer to a bedtime than mealtime. But you know what, it doesn’t matter what I think or she thinks. The only thing that matters is what his parents think because it’s their decision. And quite frankly, I think it’s nice that they try to do what they can to have dinner as a family, no matter what time it is. But because Jasmine didn’t have the guts to have an honest, but respectful conversation with her mother, the situation and the tension built up and exploded when it didn’t need to and Renee’s feelings were hurt. And somehow Crosby had to apologize, which was wrong. If anything, Jasmine should be apologizing to Crosby and her mother, because this whole thing is her fault.
I forgave Jasmine very quickly though because I LOVE the way she told Crosby she was pregnant. Even more, I love the fact that they went to see Renee and let her be the first one they told. And the way Crosby told her was so sweet and adorable, it just melted my heart. So it looks like all if forgiven and another happy ending for another Braverman sibling.
Thankfully, this storyline is over. Sarah finally made up her mind and decided to give it a go with Hank only to have her heart-broken by him when he told her he was closing the shop and moving to Minnesota to be with his daughter. I have to say, I can’t blame him. But he did tell Sarah that he loved her and wants her to move with him to snowy, icy, Minneapolis. I say, go. I’ve said this before, I love Lauren Graham, I don’t like her character. Sarah isn’t bringing a whole lot to the table and her stories, quite frankly, haven’t been that interesting. So I wouldn’t mind seeing her haul off and follow Hank to Minnesota. But that won’t happen because LG isn’t going anywhere. I also had a MAJOR problem with how she told Mark. Are you kidding me? You walk into his classroom and stiffer than a board, tell him you’re going to make a go of it with Hank and good-bye. Could she have been more cold? For God sake he was her fiance. Didn’t he deserve a little more warmth and respect than what she gave him? Take him for coffee, take him for a beer. But don’t do it at work and don’t be so cold and unfeeling that we’re wondering how you two were ever together in the first place. I assume she was trying to play it as awkward, which I’m sure it was. But it came off as bitter and rude, than awkward.
A quick note on these two. I’m glad Drew got to wrap up his story with Amy and we got to see her one more time and they were able to resolve their break up in a satisfying way. What they went through was so hard and difficult for teenagers. For anyone really but especially teenagers. I’m also thrilled to see his moment of joy learning he got into Berkley, after all the sadness he’s had the last few weeks. The only thing that was disappointing is that there is still no fallout from his moment with Sarah when he fell into her arms crying after it happened. Does she know? Did he tell her? We still don’t know. My assumption is that he did because when she was congratulating him on getting into Berkley, she told him “I told you everything would be ok.” Now was that the gentle nod to let us know that she knew? I’m still not 100% sure. Either way, I’m happy for Drew and I’m very excited for him. I’m going to say something cooky, crazy now. Is it possible Amy didn’t go through with it and is still pregnant and that we’ll see her two seasons from now where Drew bumps into her with a kid in a stroller? I’m just, throwing it out there. My guess is no, but you know how my mind works!
Amber and Ryan are back together…yeah!! As they should be. I love this relationship and it’s so nice to see how far Amber has come from when we first met her and how mature she is being. She is getting her life together and she is being very responsible and respectful to herself and Ryan in regards to making this relationship work the right way. The chemistry between Whitman and Lauria is incredible so I hope Ryan will be a permanent fixture on the show moving forward.
So that’s season 4 of Parenthood. Did you love this season? Are you sad it’s over so soon? I hope NBC does the right thing and brings it back. I think they will.